Langsung ke konten utama

Act of Service

Several times I asked my fiance why he rarely gave me flowers, chocolate, cake, and other things related to sweet things linked to Valentine's Day. And I think I got the answer now. I love to observe people, even somehow my awareness gone with no trace lol. And this time I know and I am glad that his love languages are different. He's patient enough to do house chores even if he had a lot to prepare for his works. Several times I went to his house, and I was amazed by how clean and neat it was. He has no housekeeper to assist him doing those stuff, he did it by himself. Tried to wipe my finger on his cabinet or tv, and I found nothing. You know, when we cooked together, he didn't ask and force me to help. He needed me to just watch him dancing while cooking, listen to him singing song he composed by himself, and to show off how he seasoned the food so it would taste incredibly delicious. He also taught me how to take care of white blouse and T-shirt effortlessly. Unfortunately, since I had a lot on my plate, he helped me to wash all those white thingy. What else? Many more... When we planned to cook, he always ended-up cooking the food for us. When we had movie time, he's the one who prepared the food especially from the scratch. He would pay attention to the nutrition we would take e.g., fruits, veggies, protein from meat and beans, carbs from rice - wheat - bread - cassava - yam - plantain - corn. He also helped me to prepare my lunch bento and sent it to my office. 

Dear Daddy K, thank you for these memorable things, it might seem small but for me it matters. Anw, we have a project that once we begin our journey as a family, we would drink jamu every day, eat more fruits (since I'm not really into it and I'm a fruit-picky-eater), and share more blessings every Friday to those in needs. Insya Allah. 

Bisous xoxo

Dear my future husband, I know you would read this one day. I know you would smile while reading this posting. Make sure it would keep your heart warm. And let me tell you a thing. I would appreciate when you present me something as a gift. But your presence means more, not only for me, but also for our family. That's what I learned from my father. His presence becomes one of the biggest supports that teach me about not to quit. I am tough, but I found peace when I'm courageous enough to show my sensibility and vulnerability. That's why I wept a lot. You love me, then accept me for who I am lol. Love alone is insufficient right.

Btw Daddy, once we have our junior, I know you would be the one who met their teachers for parents teachers meeting. What about me? I would wait for you in the library lol. Why? Alright lemme tell you a thing. In my family, my father would always be the first one who took care of the school needs. He's a working Dad, but he still managed to do PTC at school. What about my Mum? She tried once and it was enough to create a problem with my teachers. It wasn't a fun memory. So maybe your presence at their school will be better compare to mine. 

Komentar

Posting Komentar

hembusan yang akan disampaikan pada nona-angin

Postingan populer dari blog ini

Puisi Terjemahan William Wordsworth - I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud

Hari ini, saya mencoba lagi menerjemahkan sebuah sajak berjudul I Wandered Lonely as a Cloud yang ditulis oleh William Wordsworth. Selamat membaca kawan! Semoga apa yang kita baca hari ini, membuat kita merasa penuh dan bahagia.  *** Umpama Segumpal Awan Aku Berkelana Aku berkelana umpama segumpal awan Yang melayang di ketinggian melampaui lembah dan bukit, Ketika tak sengaja kudapati sejauh mata memandang, Sehamparan bunga-bunga daffodil; Di dekat danau, di bawah rimbun pepohonan, Bunga-bunga daffodil melambai dan menari dikibaskan angin. Tak henti-hentinya laksana bintang-gemintang yang berkilatan Dan mengerjap di keluasan bima sakti, Bintang-gemintang itu, meregang dalam lintasan tanpa batas Di sepanjang tepian danau yang luas: Sekilas kusaksikan berpuluh ribu, Bunga-bunga daffodil saling beradu lewat tarian yang begitu lincah. Ombak di sebelahnya menggulung dan pecah; namun bunga-bunga daffodil Menghempaskan kilauan ombak itu dalam sukacita: Seorang penyair menjumpai dirinya te...
Posting Komentar
Baca selengkapnya

To Our 2nd Anniversary

The night has fall, curled around, and settled In silence and peace, the moon flickered courageously and stars blinked naughty It was a rectangled room with a hanging rattan bulb where the cold took hold A wave of joyful energy gathered and helped me chanted, "this day came, we're filled with love and pleasure." We have shared sunrises and sunsets Conquering all fears, expressing the passage of time, enduring love, and tumbling in joy. I dove beneath the quilt Drifted into dreams  "Before two, I was one celebrating the innocence, the unsolved questions about why I was one, not two.  I was a foreigner, wandered with a self-made map In the North I would see the frosting winter, magical skies with ribbons of light In the East, I would see new days filled with promise, flashing out warm greetings In the South, days stretch long, bread freshly baked, and conversations about clumsy feet strolling through the field never ends In the West, trees trembled the rustling leaves....
Posting Komentar
Baca selengkapnya

Opening A New Gate

Dear baby K, this time I'm no longer call you baby K. I am thankful for the love, harsh journey, rollercoaster feelings, hard conversation, sincere understanding we still and will always build, and you've become my daddy K ever since. Yesterday became one of the best moments in my life to acknowledge your visa approved and congratulations, the flight and your master awaits you already. You deserve it. I still remember back in 18 months ago, you came to me with unhappy face telling me your plan, but at the same time you're afraid that we won't walk hand in hand that far. Daddy K, thank you for being the pillar when the inate storms hitting us. It was just last month I wept a lot with tons of disappointment and seeing myself as a failure, but what amazed me the most was that you didn't even shaking. You kept standing strong and convinced me over and over we'll be fine together insya Allah. I thank you for never giving up on me, on yourself, and on us. I can feel t...
Posting Komentar
Baca selengkapnya