I do believe it is unpleasant to treat others bad, and will be troublesome to deal with someone with difficult personality as well. Rather than just let ourselves consumed by anger and the 'urge of killing somebody', we better contemplate and do self reflection. Are we really that worth to be treated like a doormat? If so, what is the reason behind the event? Should we move a step back or stay away from someone who did this to us, or maybe try to comprehend his/ her situation in which he/she might be exhausted by the daily routine. And we never know this person might has a hard time as well before. I may look terribly sad today, but I shall not play victim and blame others to be responsible for my bad luck.
There will always be the first time for everyone. The first time to hear, the first time to feel, the first time to move, the first time to breathe and cry, the first time to drink, the first time to eat, the first time to respond, the first time to play, the first time to play together and solve the very own problem, the first time to enter school, the first time to teach, the first time to talk and engage with numerous audience, the first to be and do anything. . .till it becomes one day. . .the thing that was hard and challenging, could become a piece of cake. It takes courage, it takes sweat and tears, it takes sleepless nights, it takes restless days, it takes commitment, it takes everything. Maybe it takes your happiness away either. It may seem scary and it may seem crazy. It requires self and stress management. I always have choices amongst these options. I commence to reflect. Back then, I love to compare people, wether it would be worth it or not at all. I compare A to B...
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