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Long Distance Relationship

It could be challenging and it could make a couple feel closer even if they're miles away. Technology keeps us connected. Hence, we're merely 1 video call away. What makes our relationship different now that it's growing. 2 years ago, marveling about long distance relationship could be threatening. People said it's not encouraging. 


This time, isn't the same at all. It emerges our awareness that we're miles away for a reason, union. It sounds like Mount Everest, isn't it? Union seems to be most hazardous place to climb. Before teaching its peak, there will be storms, fatigue, anger, scared, hopelessness, but at the same time it's worth to experience. Not about to prove how great we are, but to prove that we have willingness to choose to be aware. Every single steps we make, it matters and will take us far. 


Dear us, I know it's not even a piece of cake. But to love especially in this long distance relationship means to always choose the same person over and over. And if it doesn't work, we will always choose us and that's because it's us, the person. We associate ourselves from being a team even during the hardest time. 


Dear us, i love me, i love you, and i love us. In this relationship, the long distance one but when we open up our eyes, we're just one video call away, we have three entities. Each time we brainstrom, we choose to consider us as a commitment. 



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