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Selama satu minggu ini, saya mengalami banyak hal yang membuat saya cukup merasa overwhelmed. Ternyata setelah dipikir-pikir, hal sulit lainnya untuk dilakukan adalah berbesar hati terutama untuk mengakui kesalahan. Banyak sekali alasan kita untuk menundakan meminta maaf sehingga ada hal baik yang dikorban secara sia-sia, termasuk pertemanan. Dan kalau pun bersedia meminta maaf, pasti ada konsekuensi lain yang saya terima. Tapi minimal dengan mengaku salah dan meminta maaf, saya bisa lebih tenang sambil memikirkan cara yang ampuh untuk memperbaiki diri. Bagi saya, untuk menjadi pemimpin, dimulai dari diri sendiri. Artinya saya berani memimpin diri untuk berlaku benar dan konsisten melakukan apa yang memang menjadi kewajiban saya. Memimpin diri bukan perkara mudah sebab saya berhadapan dengan diri sendiri. InsyaAllah ada jalan yang lancar untuk kebaikan. 


Bismillah...

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